Trying For Baby

My diary about trying to concieve a baby. Update - my diary about pregnancy! Update - All about my baby boy!

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Saturday, January 19, 2008

8.5 Months

Wow, it has been a while since I have written. Life had been crazy and I haven't had much time to write. We have pretty much settled into a routine where my husband gets the baby ready and takes him to daycare and I pick him up and get him ready for bed at night. He used to sleep from 9 until 7 or 7:30. Then he started going to be around 8:30, 8, 7:30 and last night was at 7! He gets up now around 6:30 or 7. He sleeps well but I wish I had more time with him. If we don't get home until 6 and he goes to bed at 7 then I only have an hour with him. That is not enough. I do have a selfish side though that enjoys have time to myself = )

My son has changed so much over the past few months. He started crawling while we were on vacation in St. John at the end of November (right around his 7 month birthday). Within a week or two he was pulling himself up and cruising along the furniture. He now has 7 teeth, four on top and three on the bottom. He says momma once in a while but he still prefers to say dada. Generally he is pretty happy. He seems to love daycare, mostly because he gets to play with the other babies I suspect. He also loves the water. We started him in swim lessons last week. He has a great time. All the fathers get in with the babies. Its funny that no women get it. We just stand on the side and chat. I think we enjoy it as much as the babies.

His favorite toys are those that make noise. Here is a picture from November of his playing his piano.

At this point people have started asking me when we are having another baby. If I got pregnant now, they would be about two years apart which is what I've always said I wanted. I AM NOT READY. There are pros and cons to having them closer together. You get to get it all over with, they will be close, you can reuse a lot of the same stuff, etc. However, the first baby doesn't get alone time, it is expensive to have two babies in daycare (I guess we would get a nanny), and hello... do you know what it would cost for a 3 bedroom in NYC? I am going to wait for a while. I think maybe 3 years apart is better. We'll see....

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

My boys are three years apart and I LOVE it! My older son was old enough to really get that we were having another baby. It was so fun for him to feel the baby kick, and to really anticipate having a sibling. I wouldn't mind 2 1/2 years apart, but I have friends who have kids two years apart and it is crazy. You will understand when he turns two, but two year old are VERY difficult until they reach 2 1/2. They start saying 'no' - showing some defiance- and run away from you. So, it would be hard to have a newborn and a young 2-year-old. But, when they are about 2 1/2, they are TONS of fun again. I really loved the one on one time with him. So, if I were you, I would wait another nine months or so just to make sure that you really enjoy your first one. :)
Sandy

1/20/2008 7:56 PM  

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